Alpha males, high skirts and blondes

Compliments are nice but they won’t move you forward in the line. What they will do is move you faster through the door. Without blowing my own trumpet, I do get my fair share of compliments probably because I believe good friendly customer service is paramount in this job.

Two very blonde ladies who are regulars were trying to attract my attention. I have refused them before and since then they swing from being *very* nice to nasty. So I treat them like they are always nice. Tonight they were making noise with a tambourine, driving me crazy, so I politely asked them to stop it. Unfortunately, because they were first in the line, both tried to get me to play it using their seductivity ? if that’s a word! I declined and moved them through fast.

Ladies wearing very short skirts should not sit on the pavement, especially cross-legged. Unless of course they are attempting to garner attention to that part of their body. Watching gentlemen, even intoxicated guys near ladies who do this, I am consistently impressed with their respectable behaviour in not overtly ogling the display. I see them sneaking in glances when the timing is discrete as we guys will, but at least they are not being overly obnoxious about it. I guess if ladies are going to, at least they will wear garments that are interesting, appealing, fashionable, err… I digress

If you are going to be an alpha male, then honestly, expect to no get in to most establishments. I observed and interacted with a couple of these types, spoke to ladies about them, and the general consensus is, women are still looking for the strong silent and sensitive type.

~ by bouncermemoirs on October 26, 2008.